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  I t’s okay to be so not fine sometimes,⁣ ⁣ I t’s okay to be ruthless and hate everyone at some point,⁣ ⁣I t’s okay to lose your shit,⁣ ⁣ I t’s okay to guard down that strong ass image you carry,⁣ ⁣I t’s okay to tuck your face in the pillow and cry for hours, and moreover, it’s perfectly fine to cry over that reason again and again until the point you are so strong that you can finally let it go and you are comfortable enough with the arrangement life has given you about that particular situation.⁣ ⁣L ife is not easy and it will never be but that is what makes it interesting and keeps us going.⁣ ⁣ Y ou play a game online and what makes you so entangled in it is how it keeps getting tougher and all you do for your survival is conquer the difficulties and eventually emerge as a winner.⁣ ⁣ T hat is what life is like, things spice up when life gets tough. ⁣ ⁣ W ith life, you’ve choices. You do not necessarily have to be a fighter at all the times, sometimes all you need to do is calm ...

D o you ever just lay in bed and realize how not okay you are?  Y ou’ve been pretending for the entire day to be all fun and games, spreading positivity, enlightening minds, and comforting people.  B ut this is the time of the day you have some confessions to make.  Confessions that matter, confessions that are and should be of prime importance because these are the things you tell yourself.  Y ou have to be true to your own self.  Y ou need to find that for yourself if you are at ease and peace. Y ou need to figure out if you are enlightened enough to enlighten others. Y ou need to learn if you are comfortable in your own skin as you preach. A nd even if you have one no for an answer then take a break, see where you are going wrong, know where you messed it up and it is fine to mess up. Life is all about messing up and cleaning the mess that you make. You may learn from your success but you will sure as hell learn from your failures.  L et your soul bre...

You’re enough! You are one hundred percent enough and capable of doing everything this world has to offer on your own. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, I repeat, anyone. Be your own provider. It’s empowering. Don’t ever hold a grudge! Holding a grudge might not affect you at first hand but it surely does a lot of damage subconsciously causing all the negativity around you. Take the high road, It’s difficult but absolutely worth it. Voice your opinions! In the society we are brought up, our opinions are never heard, respected, or cared for but still take the effort to voice them. Be loud and be further clear about what you think of things. It’s liberating and maybe in years, it will make a change too. Identify YOUR people! Find your tribe and go lengths to keep them close because you’ll definitely find people on your way who’ll make you choose. Choose wisely. It took me time, heaps of betrayal, and roughly a dozen heartbreaks but I found people who are not only my own little arm...

22hrs to 22! I’ll be 22 years old in a few hours. I feel old already but more than old, I feel responsible. Responsible for the things I do, the choices I make, and the decisions I take. The 21st year of our lives is generally supposed to be all fun and games but the excitement lasts as long as your Birthday. It’s nothing unexpected or nothing that I’d not already done. But I did come across a lot of new feelings and experiences, most common amongst them were fear, disappointment, and failure. For the first time in my life I lived with these feelings for a prolonged period of time and it was hard. Harder than I’d thought but I got over it eventually. Not that I’m successful now but yeah I’m doing well and I’ll be great given some time. I met a lot of new people this year, got into very difficult relations, fell in love, fell out of love but the most important thing I learned this year was prioritizing nothing but myself, letting go of people who would make me question my worth, never f...

O ur generation has very conveniently segregated itself into two groups. One is the old school and the other is millennials, both these groups might contradict their likings and dislikings, tastes and preferences, intellection and beliefs but one thing that runs common in the entire generation is lack of tolerance. W e get hurt so easily, our hearts are so fragile, we cannot contain our emotions, we do not even realize what is the right amount of reaction and attention a situation deserves. M oreover, a lot of us describe our weakness as being too emotional. I do not really think the entire fault is being too emotional. It’s just a cover-up for being naive, bias towards people and situations, and expecting too much out of everything.  W e tend to be emotional at our convenience. We are emotional for ourselves. Getting attached to people easily isn’t being emotional, expecting too much too soon isn’t being emotional. R ather than sinking in a situation and cribbing about why we alw...

𝐈f I somehow land at a doctor’s or a therapist’s or some random philosophical person who attempts to ask me the “𝐈𝐓” question - "What do you want from life?⁣" 𝐈 suppose my answer will be that I want 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴.⁣ ⁣ 𝐍othing big, nothing fancy, nothing too flashy, just plain, 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 of happiness. ⁣ ⁣ 𝐅ew refreshing moments where I don’t have to pick sides, I don’t have to decide what’s right or not, I don’t have to fight for the right thing, I don’t have to face consequences of fighting for the right thing, I don’t have to worry about fighting for the right thing, 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘺 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧. ⁣ ⁣ 𝐈n comprehending our little childhood/ teenage/ adulthood (basically the entire life) lesson about 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘣𝘪𝘨, we kind of mess up the entire thing.⁣ ⁣ 𝐓he 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 big and 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 it big must keep offering you happiness 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺, without any fail. ⁣ 𝐇appiness is so underrated that it doesn’t even get the privil...